"I still feel like the 30-year-old me"
Another item from my Connecticut friend:
So we don't really know [what we will do when we retire]. I think that right now at this moment, we're trying to figure out what retirement actually is going to look like for us, and it's not that we're disagreeing. We just… it's hard to accept the fact that we are at that point that we have to actually talk about because, you know, I unless I look in the mirror, I feel like I'm 30 years old still.
So there are days when you wake up, and I'm a little stiff, a little slow to start. But I still feel like the same old 30-year-old me, or the 18-year-old me, or the 45-year-old me. I do not feel like I'm going to be a 60-year-old me in December.
So, thinking about retirement, and what we want, is really, really difficult because there's still so much we want to do.